Hidden Potential By Adam Grant Book Summary

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Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things is a book by Adam Grant that explores how to build character skills and motivational structures to realize one's own potential, and how to design systems that create opportunities for those who have been underrated and overlooked. This book offers

Adam Grant's Hidden Potential Book Summary

Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things is a book by Adam Grant that explores how to build character skills and motivational structures to realize one's own potential, and how to design systems that create opportunities for those who have been underrated and overlooked.

This book offers a fresh perspective on achieving greater things in our lives. It is a must-read for anyone who wants to make the most of their potential and positively impact the world.

How To Find Out Our Hidden Potential?

  1. Potential isn't fixed it is about how far you travel not where you begin.
  2. Focus on character skills rather than practice.
  3. Long-term motivators like passion, purpose, and responsibility fuel your learning.
  4. Action leads to confidence, not the other way around.
  5. Don't be afraid to fail or change course.
  6. If you feel discomfort then that is the sign you are learning.
  7. Create your own opportunity systems that expose you to new experiences and challenges.
  8. Seeking advice from the right people is often more effective than seeking feedback for personal and professional development.
  9. Celebrate the journey, not just the destination.
  10. Recognizing potential sometimes requires looking beyond initial experiences and qualifications.
  11. Active Listening is the best way to reach the group's potential.
  12. The students should be allowed to explore their natural curiosities.
  13. Skills are best measured through action, not words or past experiences.

In our journey of learning, we often find ourselves asking the same question again and again: what sets high achievers apart? The answer is not simple, I will try to answer that same question in this summary of the book Hidden Potential: Science of Achieving Greater Things. Let's get into it.

When seeing others' success we often forget to see the difference in opportunity and motivation we have. Our opportunities and motivation set apart from that guy and us. Anyone can learn anything with the right opportunities and motivation to learn.

Potential is not a matter of where you start, but how far you travel.

Do you know how bodybuilders build their bodies? The answer lies in stretching beyond your strengths. It takes lots of tearing of muscle fibers to build that cool body, just like that learning requires us to reach beyond our abilities.

Ambition is the outcome you want to attain. Aspiration is the person you hope to become.

Part One: Skills of Character

We always had a presumption that character cannot build after growing old, but that is a misconception, character can grow and evolve. Character is demonstrated in how one hopes up on a hard day. Regardless of the current state, there's always room for character growth. Personality is the predisposition, and basic instincts for thinking, feeling, and acting. Character is the capacity to prioritize values over instincts. And that sets us apart from great learners.

In this world of artificial intelligence and rapid development in computation technology, we cannot get the full answer to the question and the question needs to be changed. We can ask What sets us apart from both animals and machines? and one answer is our character skills, our ability to stay by our values even in bad times.

Creatures of Discomfort

Discomfort is a sign that you are learning, becoming good at discomfort can unlock your hidden potential in many different areas of your life and learning.

To master learning you need to be comfortable with three kinds of courage called discomfort. You need to be ready to leave your tried-and-true methods, you need to be able to use knowledge as you acquire and last you need to be able to make more mistakes than others. If you can equip these skills in your toolbox I am sure that you can master any type of skills and learning.

The best way to accelerate growth is to embrace, seek, and amplify discomfort.

We often say that I am a visual person or auditory but the truth is we are not quite right in this matter, your preferred learning style doesn't necessarily align with the most effective learning method. Let me give you an example to explain what I am trying to say, let's say you are a student of mathematics (I am not giving this example because I am a student of mathematics but it fits right) and your preferred learning style is auditory but it will be a bad decision to listen to only lectures and not practicing any problems. I am trying to say that to master learning you need all sets of skills: visual, auditory, or kinesthetic.

You might feel comfortable in your preferred learning style but it does not always mean you learn best.

If you're comfortable, you're doin' it wrong. -Ted Lasso

One thing we can learn from the pilot is how to build skills, the pilot builds skills with discomfort in the learning process. Pilots cope with discomfort by intensifying it, building skills as they navigate challenges.

Practicing before mastery is always uncomfortable, leading to avoidance, true comfort with skills comes after mastering it.

Learning requires courage to use knowledge actively as it's acquired and writing can be the best tool to actively use knowledge. You might explain to someone in your writing.

Learning is not about finding the right method for the task but it is a journey of trying all things, if you want to think critically there is no method other than reading, if you want to understand you have to listen to your ears, and if you want to speak it then you need to practice the words with your mouth.


Writing is the best tool to learn anything, writing exposes gaps in our knowledge and logic. Unclear writing is a sign of unclear thinking or lack of understanding in that subject matter.

Making mistake make you feel uncomfortable. Feeling awkward and uncomfortable is a sign that the learning process is effective, discomfort becomes a motivation to stretch beyond your comfort zone.

Learning new skills involves making mistakes and lots of it. More mistakes lead to quicker rewiring of the brain fibers. Immunity to fear of embarrassment allows for faster learning.

Since our childhood we are taught to win, we are always praised when we get things right and criticized when we make mistakes. Accepting criticism requires loads of courage, we have to fight with our minds to accept the criticism of our mistakes and it is always hard also it is the best learning method for learning anything.

Human Sponges

You might have a question in mind about what sets us apart from success, and the secret weapon of success is the ability to become sponges.

What does it mean to become sponges? Becoming sponges here means being able to master what you are learning. Just like sponges absorbing every knowledge in your surroundings.

Prosperity rises as people become more capable of absorbing new ideas and filtering out old ones.

Learning is about seeking new information processing it and filtering out the old ones. The quality of what you take and what you utilize shows what you learned. Cognitive skills like reading, and writing are the basics for the foundation of learning.

The real magic happens when we move from fire intellect and embrace our proactive spirit. By actively acquiring new knowledge, skills, and perspectives, we transform from passive observers to active participants in our learning.

Becoming sponges is the ability to recognize the information, assimilate it into your existing knowledge base, and apply it to real-world situations. These powerful skills require essential habits.

Proactive Learning: Proactive learning is the process of seeking out information on our own. We don't wait for information to stumble up into our lap, we go out to the real world to study, do research, and use our minds to seek out information, which is proactive learning. This includes reading widely, engaging in discussions, attending workshops, and actively seeking mentors who can guide us in our journey.

Growth-Oriented Filtering: We need to ask one question, when faced with new information, are you feeding your ego or fueling your growth? This involves critical thinking, evaluating the source and value of information, and focusing on the insights that can help us improve and adapt.

The real learning happens when these two habits converge. When we proactively seek out new knowledge and filter it through a growth-oriented lens, we become true sponges.

While a self-directed approach can be effective for certain kinds of learning, especially for mastering mechanical tasks, most fields require guidance and feedback from others. Also becoming sponges requires us to seek guidance and feedback from other people.

Feedback is essential for all types of growth, but it needs to be honest and constructive. Unfortunately, many people mistake "politeness" for "kindness". While politeness avoids discomfort in the short term, it affects badly in long-term growth. True kindness is being honest, and providing feedback that helps an individual improve and reach their full potential.

If you are a doctor working on the latest surgery technique you don't want to seek feedback from your engineer friend instead you should seek advice from your colleague who already worked on that technique. Not all advice is created equal.

The more sources of feedback you gather, the more critical it becomes to filter out the noise and identify the most valuable insights.

When seeking out advice and feedback, it's crucial to choose sources we can trust. Three key factors contribute to trustworthiness:

  1. Care: Does the individual genuinely care about your growth and well-being?
  2. Credibility: Do they have the experience and expertise to offer valuable insights in your chosen field?
  3. Familiarity: Do they understand your specific goals, challenges, and learning style?

The Imperfectionists

The real world is much more ambiguous and unpredictable than the controlled environments of academic exams. When we fixate on finding the "correct" answer, we risk overlooking alternative solutions and creative possibilities.

Perfectionism is the desire to be flawless and to achieve impeccable standards with no room for faults, flaws, or failures. This pursuit of perfection, while seemingly admirable, can be detrimental to our growth and success in the real world.

Research suggests that perfectionism often leads to three negative outcomes:

Obsessive focus on unimportant details: Perfectionists tend to get bogged down by minor flaws and inconsistencies, losing sight of the bigger picture and the overall impact of their work.
Fear of unfamiliar situations and challenges: To avoid the possibility of failure, perfectionists may shy away from new experiences and difficult tasks, limiting their learning and growth potential.
Harsh self-criticism: Perfectionists often engage in self-flagellation for making mistakes, which hinders their ability to learn from those mistakes and move forward.

Wabi-sabi, the Japanese art of appreciating the beauty in imperfection, offers a refreshing counterpoint to the pursuit of perfection. It's not about intentionally creating flaws, but rather about accepting that imperfections are an inevitable part of life and learning to see their unique charm and character.

Striving for excellence requires discipline and a willingness to prioritize, delegate, and accept that some flaws are inevitable. Extensive research demonstrates that it's the pursuit of high personal standards, not perfectionism, that fuels growth and achievement.

Instead of aiming for "doing your best," which can be a vague and self-defeating goal, focus on asking yourself two key questions:

  1. Did you make yourself better today? This question encourages self-improvement and continuous learning.
  2. Did you make someone else better today? This question expands your focus beyond yourself and promotes the well-being of others.

Appreciating our progress requires a shift in perspective. Imagine how proud your past self would be if they knew what you have accomplished today. This helps you appreciate your journey and recognize your growth.

Instead of punishing ourselves for our shortcomings, we should embrace them as opportunities for learning and growth. Studies show that when others assess our skills, they tend to focus more on our peak performance than our failures. They judge our potential based on our best moments, not our worst. Extending this grace to ourselves is crucial for our well-being and progress.

In the fast-paced world of today, "done is better than perfect" is a popular mantra, particularly in Silicon Valley. However, focusing solely on completion can lead to mediocrity. Instead, we should strive for a "minimum lovable product," a product that meets our high standards and is worthy of putting our name on.

Part Two: Structure For Motivation

In a journey towards any goal we inevitably encounter roadblocks, both internal and external. Internal roadblocks are generated within ourselves, or our working organization. External roadblocks are created through our environment.

Daily routines can become monotonous and lead to burnout, stagnation can breed discouragement, and difficult tasks can result in failure, leaving us feeling discouraged and doubtful. We begin to question our resilience and ability to move forward.

Relying solely on our character skills may not be sufficient to overcome these challenges, and in rescue of this problem concept of scaffolding comes up.

Scaffolding usually comes from other people. We often lack the necessary insight or knowledge to identify and implement the most effective strategies on our own.

In the case of the Tetris Effect, the idea of playing Tetris to ward off unwelcome images wouldn't have occurred to most individuals if not suggested by someone who had encountered and overcome similar experiences.

Effective scaffolding is specific and targeted to the unique obstacle faced by the individual.

Scaffolding doesn't mean to remedy your permanent problem, it is meant to be temporary. It's designed to bridge the gap between where the individual is and where they need to be. Ideally, the individual will develop the necessary skills and confidence to navigate future challenges independently.

Transforming the Daily Grind into a Source of Daily Joy

The best strategy to learn is not to grind oneself into a set of daily rules and routines, but instead transform them into a source of joy, so practice is fun and interesting. So how do we transform the daily grind into a source of play, there are three basic ways.

  1. Deliberate Play: It is about introducing novelty and variety into your practice, keeping things fresh, fun, and engaging. Deliberate play can be facilitated by a teacher or coach or you can also design on your own.
  2. Harmony Over Should: Harmonious passion is taking joy in the process rather than feeling pressure to achieve an outcome. It's about moving from "I should be studying" to "I feel like studying." This shift in mindset can make a world of difference in how we approach our daily tasks.
  3. Breaks Are Essential: When we are obsessed with something we forget to take a break or rest, and we push ourselves to the end of exhaustion. As we push ourselves beyond our limits we get out of fuel and often get discouragement, recognizing breaks are important in learning is the most crucial part. Micro-breaks of just 5-10 minutes can help reduce fatigue and boost energy.

Find the tasks you love, don't try to do too much at once, take time to acknowledge your accomplishments, surround yourself with people of the same interests, be patient, and enjoy the process. This is the ultimate mantra for transforming any type of daily grind into a source of daily joy.

Getting Unstuck

The road to mastering any skill is rarely a smooth, straight path. We all encounter plateaus, valleys, and detours along the way, points where progress seems to stall or regress. These moments can be frustrating and discouraging, but they are also an inevitable part of the learning process.

The first step to getting unstuck is recognizing the signs of rut, and the signs are: you are no longer making progress, you find less interest in practicing, you are easily frustrated by challenges,

Strategies for Getting Unstuck:

  1. Embrace the setback: Accept valleys and plateaus as a normal part of the learning process.
  2. Change Your Approach: Try a new learning method, and practice different learning exercises.
  3. Focus On the Process: Instead of obsessing over the results, enjoy the process of learning.
  4. Take a Break: Sometimes stepping away from a task for a short time can help you come back refreshed and motivated.
  5. Connect With Others: Join a community of learners or find a practice partner to share your journey with.
  6. Seek Guidance: A perfect map does not exist and there may not even be roads on that map, to navigate that path or region of life you need a guide, someone who already experienced such things. A good piece of advice on seeking guidance is not to take guidance from experts, they have come so far that they have forgotten what is it like to be a novice. As we move toward mastery we become less conscious about the fundamentals, and our ability to explain the route to others.
  7. Take a Detour: A study shows people who spent evenings on a side hustle perform better the next day on their regular tasks. Investing time in your hobbies different from your regular jobs builds up confidence.
  8. Track Your Progress: Keep a log of your practice session and record your progress over time. It is the most effective force for daily motivation.

Defying Gravity

When faced with invincible challenges, it is easy to feel stuck, our potential buried beneath the weight of self-doubt and external pressures. In the middle of these obstacles there lies an unexpected key to unlocking our potential and soaring to new heights and that is focusing beyond ourselves.

I do my best because I'm counting on you counting on me.

viewing challenges as threat challenges as threats triggers a defensive response, leading to withdrawal and giving up. But, when we perceive them as opportunities for growth, we rise to the occasion, driven by a sense of purpose and possibility.

Strategies to defy Gravity:

  1. Teaching Others: Study shows that engaging in reciprocal learning, where we both learn and teach, fosters exceptional growth. Teaching others not only enhances their understanding but also deepens our own. This also applies to novices, the act of explaining to others strengthens our grasp. Keep in mind that teaching is the most effective way of learning.
  2. Giving Advice or Coaching Others: When we encourage others to overcome obstacles, it helps us find our own motivation. It is more motivating to be a giver than a receiver.
  3. Desire to Prove Others Wrong: People's expectation often becomes self-fulfilling prophecies, the beliefs of other give us a ladder, and they elevates our aspirations but the opposite can also be true. The desire to prove to others is also a powerful motivation factor in learning. When others underestimate our capabilities, it can ignite a spark of determination that propels us forward.
  4. Make Other Counts on You: When we are doing something for the people we care about, it fuels our strength and resilience. When others are counting on us we unlock reserves of motivation and commitment that we never knew existed. This sense of responsibility to not wanting to let down on people who trust us, pushes us beyond our comfort zones.
It's more important to be good ancestors than dutiful descendants. Too many people spend their live being custodians of the past instead of stewards of the future. We worry about making our parents proud when we should be focused on making out children proud. The responsibility of each generation is not to please our predecessors – it's to improve conditions for our successors.

Parth Three: Systems Of Opportunity

To give people a chance to achieve greater things we need a better system that opens the door for all people who want to learn. We often forget to weigh the importance of circumstances when we judge genius with extraordinary abilities.

We can reach humanity's greatest potential by cultivating the genius in everyone.

Every Child Gets Ahead

For too long, society has focused on individual genius as the sole driver of success. We celebrate the exceptional few while overlooking the potential hidden within each and every child.

Investing solely in children who exhibit early signs of exceptional talent is not the answer. Instead, we must invest in every child, regardless of background or apparent ability.

This means creating schools where all students can achieve great things and reach their full potential.

Classroom where high expectations and a belief in every child's potential are the norm, students thrive. The converse is also true.

Research indicates that one simple practice can significantly improve student achievement - consistent teacher-student relationships. Studies have shown that students who have the same teacher for two years in a row, regardless of individual teacher quality, make greater academic progress.

Student should be encouraged to to explore natural curiosity and develop their own talents.

Play is essential for cognitive development, social-emotional learning, and overall well-being.

Schools should allow the students to choose their own reading materials and share their interests with others. Forcing children to read specific books or engage in rote activities can quickly extinguish their enthusiasm.

Reading is the basic skill for all subjects, if you don't have the motivation to read, you can't study any other subject.

Academics are important and they are not the only measurements of success. A truly successful education system prioritizes character development, socio-emotional skills, and building a love of learning.

An education system cannot be truly successful until it provides every child, regardless of background or resources, with the opportunity to reach their full potential.

By investing in every child and creating systems that nurture their unique talents and abilities, we can unleash the true potential of our society.

Mining For Gold

Maximizing group intelligence is an art that goes beyond simply assembling a group of experts. It's not about throwing people together and hoping they'll magically solve a problem. Rather, it's about unearthing and harnessing the collective wisdom of the group.

Research shows that the teams with the highest individual intelligence aren't always the most successful. In fact, teams with the strongest "team players" tend to outperform others.

Being a team player isn't about forced cooperation, it is about understanding the group's needs, recognizing individual strengths, and aligning efforts toward shared goals.

There is a term called the Babble effect, where the person who talks the most, regardless of competence, is perceived as the leader. This leads to a situation where confident, self-promoting individuals rise to the top, even if they lack the necessary skills. We must not fall victim to it.

We get stuck following people who dominate the discussion instead of those who elevate it.

True leaders understand that the goal isn't to be the smartest person in the room; it's to make the entire room smarter. They recognize the importance of active listening, encouraging diverse perspectives, and creating a space where everyone feels comfortable contributing.

Traditional brainstorming can often be dominated by the loudest voices, stifling creativity and silencing valuable contributions. To overcome this, we can shift to brainwriting, a process where individuals independently write down their ideas before sharing them with the group. This promotes equitable participation and allows everyone's ideas to be heard and considered.

Many organizations still operate under hierarchical structures that limit communication and restrict the flow of ideas. The lattice system offers a powerful alternative. It removes rigid hierarchies and replaces them with a network of interconnected nodes, allowing individuals to easily connect and collaborate across different levels and departments.

By listening, collaborating, and breaking down barriers, we can unlock the true potential of any group.

Diamonds In the Rough

Our current systems for evaluating people often overlook hidden potential, focusing solely on past performance and easily quantifiable metrics. This leads us to miss out on talented individuals who haven't had the opportunity to showcase their true abilities.

While past performance can offer some insight into present abilities, it has limitations. It often fails to capture the degree of difficulty individuals have faced, the skills developed through adversity, and the potential for future growth. Overlooking this factor leads us to misjudge people.

Schools judge you as much for your performance three year ago as for three month ago – and they don't even bother to look at the most recent and relevant data at all.

Traditional evaluation systems often punish early failures, creating a significant obstacle for those who take time to find their footing. However, early struggles followed by later success can be a powerful indicator of hidden potential.

Skills are best measured through actions, not words or past experiences. By focusing on what people can do, rather than what they say they can do or what they've done before, we gain a more accurate understanding of their true abilities and potential.

Evaluating how individuals respond to challenges and setbacks provides a more meaningful window into their character than their initial performance.

Recognizing that there are many paths to fulfillment and appreciating diverse strengths and talents are crucial for identifying and nurturing hidden potential.

Discovering hidden potential is about more than just identifying talented individuals; it's about creating an environment where their potential can flourish.